Every which way we turn it seems like there is no glimpse of optimism.  TV, radio, magazines, newspapers and the internet highlight the problems and hardships caused by the downward spiraling economy. Yes, we are living during unusual and historic times, and admittedly, the realities of today are frightening. It’s just tough out there.  And here comes the bride...


I was recently talking with a friend who is a new bride and instead of being thrilled that she was about to marry the man of her dreams, she was worried about the financial obligations and expectations that come with being a bride, particularly in this economy. From the wedding dress to the honeymoon and the wedding expenses to the actual marriage expenses, my friend's wedding planning worries had no end. "How can I plan a wedding the way I want to when the future looks so grim?" she asked me.

True, there is a bumpy road ahead. That is why celebrating the positive is more important than ever. A wedding is about the love shared between the couple and the supportive loved ones who help make a special moment become a lasting and treasured memory. So what if there is a bit of reality on your wedding day? After all, you are taking serious vows to love each other for richer, for poorer, in good times and in bad for as long as you both shall live! This is an opportunity to show off the strength of your relationship, “go back to your roots” and put personal touches on your fabulous wedding.

The conversation with my friend has inspired me to write a series offering tips for being engaged and planning events during these tough economic times. I will share cost-cutting ideas to make your event affordable while extraordinary. A true party does not have to be extravagant to be one heck of a celebration!

Please let me know if there is anything specific you’d like me to write about.